I was searching the internets for things I was thinking about (started out with top surgery and then strayed to other things) and stumbled on neutrois.me. Surfing through the posts, I found one explaining what neutrois meant to this person, using stereotypes. I had never thought about it that way before, and it helped me get a bit more perspective on non-binary genders. So I wrote down the things I like (I tried to keep it to “the biggest things” but I think that I strayed a bit, but I also think the the list I’ve come up with is pretty representative of me) and assigned them as either masculine, feminine or neutral based on stereotypes. Based on the list, my interests come out as 54% neutral, 31% feminine and 15% masculine. That’s actually kind of a relief to me. I thought that lately I’ve been “too masculine”. At first, being masculine was great, and I felt kind of pressured to be more masculine since the only times I’ve really felt gendered, I was masculine. But it became increasingly uncomfortable to trying to be “manly” and I didn’t like it. I’ve also been wondering if androgyne is really an apt way to describe me. I don’t think I identify as neutrois, either, and I would still like to look androgynous, but gender-neutral seems pretty fitting for right now.
tl,dr: Neutrois.me and the article I linked to were really helpful, and I understand some things better now! It’s worth checking out.
Oh my god the person that used to be masturbinator is back, I’m so happy, following without delay, I will not miss this chance again.
So today Angelina Jolie had double mastectomy, which is the removal of one’s breasts, to prevent Breast cancer. So instead of praising Angelina on her bravery, men on Twitter decided to ridicule her, even calling her stupid for removing her breasts. For those of you on Tumblr that are attacking Feminists about being delusional about sexism against women and misogyny here’s your fucking proof that sexism and misogyny exists.
Spent the weekend at my mom’s for mother’s day. While it was fun, and I always enjoy seeing my family, it’s a relief to be home and not be reminded that you’re the odd one out whenever your sisters call you a boy because you cut your hair and have everyone say “we have vaginas, so we’re all girls, you’re a girl”, because they don’t understand the difference between gender and sex, and don’t understand that there are more than two genders and that I’m neither a girl or a boy, and that doesn’t mean that I want a sex change.
On a lighter note, it’s also a nice feeling to go from having my mother dismiss my attraction to monsters (“there’s no such thing, it’s impossible”) to smiling stupidly at big growl sounds in songs. It’s good to be home.
ok for real i hate hate hate hate reposting without sources!!! im taking music commissions and art commissions right now!! NONE of my fricking music posts have like 3000 notes but suddenly someone reposts my shit without credit and its 3000 notes???????? DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS??? I’M MISSING OUT ON PEOPLE WHO COULD HAVE LIKED MY ART AND MUSIC! I’M MISSING OUT ON POSSIBLE MONEY AND FANS
making music and art IS MY LIFE AND MY JOB i am not going to college and hope not to and i HAVE TO MAKE MONEY OR ELSE MY PARENTS MIGHT NOT SUPPORT ME IN THEIR HOUSE ANYMORE
REPOSTING MY SHIT AND NOT CREDITING ME LITERALLY ACTUALLY HURTS ME AND HURTS MY LIFE
PLEASE CREDIT AND SOURCE THE PEOPLE YOU REPOST SHIT FROM FOR THE LOVE OF GOD